why?

Everything is blamed on me in this family!

My brother doesn't want to visit my place -> I must have done anything wrong to him.
I don't want to share stories with family -> It's my fault.
If anything happens, just blame it on me. I'm always the trouble girl in this house.

I graduated from one of the best universities in city. I have a job, well-earned salary. I don't go to club, bar. Don't try to do anything harmful. I treat everybody well.
What else do you need from me?
I have my own life! Why asking me to follow what you say? Why asking me to live the way you want?
Why?